With China's
divorce rate rising, Liu was one of thousands of middle-aged and senior lonely
hearts who took part in the annual event sponsored by the Shanghai government
after the upper age limit was raised from 45 to 60 this year.
"I'm
looking for someone not too ugly," Liu said as she glanced around at the
participants, many of whom were also too shy to mix and mingle.
She
wanted to find a second husband when she was younger but her daughter did not
want her to, she said, so she put her love life on hold.
The event, which
drew 30,000 people last year, attracted an estimated 40,000 this year after
organisers lifted the age limit to satisfy demand from the growing number of
divorcees, said Xu Tianli, vice chairman of the Shanghai Matchmaking Agency
Management Association.
With some people there in their 60s and even 70s,
the age limit was not absolute.
"If anyone has earnest love and marriage
needs then we will do our best to help them out," Xu said.
Divorce rates
in China have climbed for seven years in a row. In 2012, the year-on-year rise
in divorces outpaced that of marriages for the first time, according to official
data.
The Chinese city with the highest divorce rate is Beijing, at 39
percent, according to local media. About half of U.S. marriages end in divorce,
while the figure for Britain is 42 percent.
The issue has not escaped the
notice of China's government, which is concerned that broken homes will erode
social stability.
"Previously, the government didn't collect statistics
but sensitivity to this issue is increasing," said Sun Qiliang, who heads
China's Marriage and Family Counselling website.
"It's likely that
children from divorced families will become social outcasts and vagrants. So it
does have a negative impact on society."
To mend ailing marriages and
encourage senior singles to date, China has introduced a range of
measures.
In March the "Family Harmony" project was launched to train a
force of "marriage doctors and nurses" to help stabilise rocky
relationships.
The match-making event in Shanghai, held in a vast
furniture warehouse, was divided into different sections, with three set aside
for senior participants.
Zheng Zhixin, 68, said he and his wife got
divorced while they were living in Japan when he worked there as an
engineer.
"She wanted to stay but I wanted to come back home. Our
direction was not the same," he said.
Zheng said he still believes in
love but realises that socialising with women is not one of his
strengths.
For Liu, the event offered a chance to find companionship,
even though she did not find anyone who took her fancy.
"My daughter is
married. I am lonely," she said. "I want someone to live with in case I get ill.
I don't need love because I am already old."
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